Despite the fact that Zodwa Wabantu’s association with a ‘Ben 10’ has got tongues swaying, the performer has uncovered that she inclines toward dating more youthful folks to more older men undoubtedly.
Zodwa disclosed to TshisaLIVE that having dated more older men previously she knows for a “fact” that one turns into a servant and has nothing no say in the relationship.
“I should be getting a rich old guy… but my boyfriend is a good man. I know, a rich guy will make my life miserable or make me feel unworthy. I have been there dear, I am not interested in going back. The first time I was in the paper was actually because I was dating Mandla Mthembu, yes the one who used to date Khanyisile Mbau… so I am over such things.”
Zodwa said all she needed was the opportunity to seek after her satisfaction and by one means or another being with a more youthful person gave her that.
“I am not dating a Ben 10 because I need attention or looking for love. I know what love feels and looks like, that is not what I am after. I am after happiness, being in a free space and living my best life.”
The performer said she was glad since her beau was independent.
She said she adored the way that her course of action with her sweetheart, whom she revealed worked at the bank, doesn’t give her pressure.
“I don’t want stress, I am an adult. I don’t want a person who will require things I can’t give, wanting me to cook when I come back from gigs or telling me I am making more money than him or telling me I am embarrassing him with my job.”
Zodwa likewise said she wasn’t occupied with satisfying society or falling into the weight of reasoning she needs to get married.
“I don’t want to get married. For what? Just so I can go home and show people that someone wants to marry me? I don’t even want to get married. I want to die with my freedom intact, I want to die happy! I won’t buy status through a man, so me and my boyfriend’s little setting is just perfect.”